What To Do When Your Divorced Parents Are Both Invited For Christmas Dinner
December 25, 2008
Nearly half married couples end up going through a divorce. With a startling statistic like that, it’s safe to say that many of us have parents who are divorced. Finding a way to celebrate Christmas with both of them can be challenging if their marriage didn’t end in a friendly manner.
Making Christmas pleasant for everyone involved can be tricky when both parents are invited. However, it can be done with tact and grace and everyone can have a great time together. Here are some tips to help you figure it out.
- Don’t bring up the past. One of the worst things to do in many cases of divorced parents is bring up the past. If you know that is a particularly sore spot for your parents, try not to bring it up in conversation. Many divorced parents want to move forward, not talk about past mistakes.
- Focus on the present and future. Talk about or ask questions about the future. Do either of them have impending promotions or job changes? Talk about your children’s school projects or recent plays. Find a way to help them connect through family topics.
- Play games. Simple board or card games can help connect broken families. A fun game of SkipBo or Uno or a few games of Clue or Chinese checkers can bring everyone together at the table. Never underestimate the power of a simple game.
These are just a few simple ways to keep the mood peaceful and lighthearted during Christmas with your divorced parents. Add your own ideas to this list and have a pleasant Christmas with your family this year.
