Archive for May, 2008

Anxiety and depression are literally debilitating diseases. They can take total control of your life before you realize it. Many people suffering from anxiety and depression may not even realize it. They learn to deal with their awkward feelings and think they’re no different from everyone else.

It is for this very reason that if you know someone whom you think is suffering from anxiety and/or depression, you should offer to help them. If you think you are suffering from anxiety and depression, there are ways to overcome it. Here are seven steps to help get you started on the road to recovery:

1. Admit you have a problem. This is always the hardest part. There is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. Many people suffer from exactly the same thing as you. Admitting you have a problem is the first step to a healthy recovery.

2. Recognize that this is not your fault. All too often, people suffering from anxiety or depression assume that it is because of something horrible they’ve done. In many instances, depression is brought on by chemical imbalances in your body. It has nothing to do with your spiritual state at all.

3. Be kind to yourself. When you are depressed, you beat yourself up. You berate yourself and constantly think negative thoughts. Remember to give yourself a break. Be as nice to yourself as you would be to a friend suffering the same as you.

4. Ask for help. Don’t be stubborn and tell yourself that you can get through this alone. Be bold enough to visit your family physician and ask for help.

5. Take your medication as prescribed. One of the biggest mistakes many people make is not following the doctor’s orders when it comes to medication. Just because you’re feeling better, that doesn’t mean you should stop taking your meds. Never discontinue your medication with your doctor’s orders or supervision.

6. Call on a good friend. During the times when you want to be alone, you should call a good friend and ask for company. These “dark hours” are the worst and you should never lock yourself away and suffer through it alone.

7. Start exercising regularly. Believe it or not, getting frequent exercise dramatically decreases anxiety attacks and mood swings. Get out and walk or join a local gym and start exercising as often as possible.

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boost your creativity Are you running low on inspiration and creativity? Many artists get this way from time to time. There’s nothing worse than feeling a creative block standing in your path. I have some great tips for you on how to boost your creativity in just a few minutes.

#1 – Bring your digital camera on a nature walk. Experiencing the sights and sounds of nature cannot be compared to anything else. For an artist, this explosion of the senses can truly open you up and inspire your creativity again.

#2 – Listen to music you wouldn’t ordinarily listen to. If you’re a country music fan, try some jazz. Contrarily, if you are a rock and roll fan, listen to some Beethoven or Mozart. Interestingly enough, many experts say that listening to classical music can open up your creativity a million different ways. Give it a try!

#3 – Turn off your television for one week. More and more artists are throwing out their TV. sets these days. Have you ever wondered why? With the incessant chatter of talking in the background all day every day, we’re overcome with this flood of input. Turning off the TV. for a few days will help clear your mind and open you up again.

#4 – Step away from your art for a day. Sometimes when you’re blocked, the best thing to do is simply walk away. If your creativity level is low, you could probably benefit from leaving your art as is and coming back to it later. Sometimes all you need is just a 10- or 20-minute break. But if you’re able to walk away for a full day, you’ll find yourself yearning to get back to it and will feel an increased sense of creativity once you are able to get back to it.

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The Law of Attraction is powerful and can be used by anyone. However, some people don’t believe in it, and even think that the Law of Attraction is just a bunch of hooey. For those who do believe, here are a few ways you can use the Law of Attraction in your life.

1. The Law of Attraction can change your way of thinking. If you have been a negative thinker for some time, you can use the Law of Attraction to change those thoughts into more positive ones. It takes time, but it is possible.

2. The Law of Attraction opens your mind and heart to more possibilities. All too often we grow discouraged way too fast. We may even think that we’re “down on our luck.” When you begin to use the Law of Attraction, you will slowly begin to see the possibilities in every situation, instead of just feeling like you got the short end of the stick.

3. The Law of Attraction will make you more optimistic. As stated above, when you begin to use the power of your thoughts to increase positive energy, you will naturally become more optimistic. You’ll begin to see potential, whereas you may have once seen a terrible outcome.

Some of the steps to using the Law of Attraction in your life include:

· Use daily positive affirmations to increase your optimism.

· Start anticipating the best in your life, verses the worst.

· Prepare yourself for the good things to come by taking action in your own life.

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Do you find it difficult to let anyone do anything for you? Do you attempt to do everything on your own so you don’t have to ask for help? If so, you may have control issues.

Control is a serious problem that many people face. It has been said that Type A personalities suffer from control issues most. There are some things you can do to help release that hold of control.

1) Forget about perfection. Do you always seem to get wrapped up in trying to make everything perfect? Do you scrub your floors until they are absolutely spotless? Do you rewrite a single paragraph umpteen times until you feel like it’s perfect? There is nothing without a flaw. Remind yourself to forget about perfection sometimes.

2) Accept “good enough.” Controllers struggle a great deal with this one, too, because to them it seems like nothing is ever good enough. This plays right into the hand of perfectionism, too. You have to allow yourself to stop at some point and say “Okay, this is good enough for now.”

3) Practice saying “no.” You probably tend to take on way too many responsibilities, all because you think you can’t say no. The problem with this is that when some people recognize this flaw in you, they will use it to the fullest of their ability. Be cautious of this, and allow yourself to turn things down when you don’t want to or don’t have time to do them.

4) Delegate responsibilities to others. Stop trying to do everything all by yourself. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking someone else to help you out with something. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, call a friend and enlist help to complete the task.

5) Celebrate small victories. Controllers often overlook victories won because they’re too busy trying to maintain control over the next battle. Stop doing this to yourself! Celebrate your victories, big and small. You’ll be encouraged to keep moving forward.

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